Identity Crisis: Who Are You?

I have two girls and both of them are very different. They often ask me which one I love more. The truth is, I love both of them equally – or better yet, uniquely. Their personalities, skills, strengths and weaknesses make them who they are and who they are is completely AMAZING!

Each of them has their own influence on the rest of the family and we can’t even imagine not having them in our lives. One of the constant struggles still remains – struggle to fight for more, struggle to be like my sister, struggle to be better, faster, smarter… It takes constant reinforcement to keep them aligned with who they truly are.

Identity Crisis
When I connect with my clients for the first time during our Freedom To Be You consultation, they are amazed how well I know them. After years of struggling to fit in; many of them no longer remember what is true “ME” and what is “THEM”. True identity crisis, right?

Some start with frustration over their results. They don’t like them. Or they think the results are wrong. Sometimes it takes a look into their kitchen cupboard or closet to confirm that the results are right, it’s their perception of themselves what’s wrong.

This is not unique to my kids or my clients. This is a world-wide problem. People no longer understand who they are. We got so used to wearing our masks, that we don’t even recognize our own face in the mirror.

We talk about “following” other leaders, but instead we’re trying to become mini-them hoping that we’ll be able to achieve what they have.

Here’s a message for you today…

You Are Enough!

You are unique, awesome, your strengths and skills are needed. You don’t have to be like anybody else out there to make an impact, be successful, or live a happy life.

It’s the other way around… By being true to yourself, you will not only be able to make the biggest impact, but also live the most satisfying life.

Don’t ever settle for less! You are YOU for a reason!!!